Twelve years ago this month, I began
working at a family owned business in the height of their busiest time of the
year, the holiday season. The atmosphere was a bit crazed at the time, since
they had just gone live with their new ERP system and well…the organization was
reeling from strong growth and adapting to both organizational and functional
changes. I wasn’t sure about what I stepped into at the time but I soon realize
how fortunate I was…This was no ordinary workplace, and these were not ordinary
people.
Over the years, I was blessed to have the opportunity
to grow and learn through challenging assignments, and the rewarding experience
of encouraging others to achieve their potential. I worked with a team of
people who were capable, responsible, and resourceful, and they had a unique talent
for using humor to diffuse stress. I also had the privilege of developing
lasting friendships, and getting to know the people I worked with and their
families.
The business was a good combination of large enough
to provide challenge and growth, yet small enough for everyone to be known for
their strengths and contributions. It was not unusual for the Owner or CEO to
greet staff members by name while passing them in the hallways. It had the feel
of being home to me for many years. This in of itself made it difficult to
accept the fact that the progression of my disease would eventually force me to
give it up much sooner than I wanted.
While the physical changes were gradual, it did
become apparent that something was wrong by the end of 2010, and although my
co-workers didn’t pry, they began to show concern, and offer assistance when I needed
it. Those closest to me knew of our pursuit to figure out what was
causing these changes in my physical condition, and when we confirmed the
diagnosis, the word began to get out.
I will never find words to accurately describe the
overwhelming support and caring I experienced in this organization, from the Owner,
CEO, and Executive Team, to those in my group, and others, outside of my group,
with whom I rarely worked. They were kind and generous beyond any expectation. One
incredibly bighearted individual provided a scooter that made it safer for me
to get around in the building, co-workers held doors, waited patiently for me
to pass, and smiled or joked with me to normalize what could otherwise be
awkward.
They sent personal notes, cards, and thoughtful
gifts, offered prayers, made meals for us, took me to lunch and even doctor’s
appointments. One special family drove out of their way to take me to and from
work for eight months, often treating me to a Starbuck’s venti black coffee on
the drive in. They carried my bags, my lunch, my walker, and let me grab onto
them, as I moved slowly to get in and out of the building.
When we formed a team to participate in the walk
for ALS, they mobilized a fund raising effort that collected thousands of
dollars in donations to support ALS patients and their families, most of which
came from their own pockets. They additionally provided donations for any
equipment I might personally need.
This is no ordinary company, and these are not
ordinary people; they have been my family for a long time, and this is only one
example of how they take care of their own.
I can identify with what Lou Gehrig was feeling
when he gave his Luckiest Man on the Face of the Earth speech at Yankee
Stadium, because for the last twelve years, it has been an honor to work with
such a fine group of people and for that I am truly grateful.
Denise, thank for you for sharing all these experiences with us. You hired me at this wonderful company, and I had the priveledge of working for you. I understand why you had the support you did because you're an amazing person and I am honored to have worked with you. Though I left the company before your illness came to be, I can only imagine how everyone pulled together to make sure you were fully taken care of. You were always the superstar there and we had the pleasure the being your friend. I am so blessed to have stayed close with you and to be reading these posts you've written. We all adore you, Denise.
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